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Anonymous asked: i talked to him (im the anon about the bf) and he said that i was hanging out with a guy he didnt know and thought i was cheating on him!!!! unbelievable right?

Not totally unbelievable, guys can be pretty jealous creatures. You need to explain to him that you were just hanging out — nothing more. let him know that you had no intention of cheating, he was just a friend that you chilled with. 

Anonymous asked: how r u engaged???? ur 16!!!

i get asked this so often! my best friend got down on one knee, took out a ring, said he “chose me” (it was inside a little pokeball, the exact way i’ve always wanted to be proposed to) and i said yes. He wants to be with me forever and he sees no point of waiting. We get married the day i turn eighteen<3<3<3

Anonymous asked: how do you get over a death of a loved one?

that is a topic that can have three main responses. So i’ll list the three and you can choose the one you like best?

1. You can curl up into a ball of sorrow and be angry at the world for taking this person from you. You can cry for days and never leave your room, never eat, never get out of bed, essentially waste away for the rest of your life thinking of how empty you are now that they’re gone.

2. You can be a sosciopath and blow it off completely not caring feeling numb inside and not doing anything, feeling nothing. 

3. You can cry, and be sad and be angry, for as long as you’d like, but you can then remember them for the good that they were, the person that they were to you. Remember all the good times and think of how that person helped you become better. Whoever died probably didn’t want to make a lot of people sad, it was probably their time. You have to accept that, for no matter what the cause of death was, you have to understand that there is no point in upsetting them or yourself. They would want you to think about the impact of their life, realize how great it was, realize how lucky the world was to have them, and then be happy and try to leave a legacy as great as theirs.

Whichever you choose, i am sorry that you or a loved one might’ve lost someone dear to you <3 

Anonymous asked: im a senior and freaking out cause my bf doesnt want to go to the same college as me

if you two really love each other, than the college you go to shouldn’t matter! Even if it’s out of state, if you two are really committed to each other, then the distance shouldn’t bother you. Skype, facebook, twitter, emails, visit on the weekends or after classes, there are ways that you two will be able to see each other regardless of where you go, and if you two are willing to put in the effort and make it work, then it’ll all be fine<3

Anonymous asked: how do you keep your parents from fighting?

you can’t keep your parents from fighting. i know it isn’t the answer you wanted to hear, but if your parents fight constantly then there isn’t a way to fix that, other than them to work out their differences themselves or to split up. Try and get them to go to marriage counseling, or therapy. Or have a mediation session to see why they are so angry at each other.

Or, times might be tough in their lives and they are just stressed out with anxiety. If that’s the case, let them cool off and work things out on their own. They are adults, they can do it. It’s just a matter of if they will.

Anonymous asked: im 13 and i weigh like 200 pounds, how can i lose weight without excersizing?

well, the only healthy way to lose weight is to be active (swimming, running, walking etc) or eating healthy (fruits veggies all that jazz) and those are the only ways i recommend. Any other way is unnatural and unhealthy, and i don’t want you to put your body through that <3

i am 16 and weigh 173 and all i really do is walk to my classes in school, drink water instead of soda, and eat a chicken salad wrap for lunch every day, i’ve been losing weight just by doing that!

Anonymous asked: my boyfriend stopped talking to me out of nowhere. i hate to bother you with this, but i need advice

you aren’t a bother, i’m sorry i couldn’t get to you sooner<3 Did something happen between you and your boyfriend that he might see as upsetting in any way? An argument, a comment, anything? People don’t just ignore you out of the blue, he might have misinterpreted something you might have done. 

Anonymous asked: how can i get into college academy? i heard you were doing it

oh! this means you must be someone i know from school :) to be honest i’m not too sure, i did fairly well on my PSAT and they sent me a letter inviting me to the open house

Hey guys, sorry if you sent me mail and i didn’t reply to it, my ask button wasn’t showing any notifications! It’s all fixed now, and a submit is open too if you have a long story you want to share/want advice for

I am so so so sorry i couldn’t get to you all sooner my mailbox gave me no notification that there was anything in it! :(

let me help you with your problems! D: thats the only thing keeping this blog alive, me spreading hope and help. 

i can’t do that though if my ask box is empty :(

anything?

well at least you guys are having a nice life :D<3 that’s always good to hear :)

xoxo

zanna<3

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